Have your most INTENSE orgasm ever with prostate milking! [Updated for 2022]

Ever massage your prostate?

Most men haven’t experienced a prostate orgasm and they are really missing out. But that’s OK. I used to be afraid of anything related to anal play myself. I just thought it would be weird and uncomfortable.

But one day for some reason I decided to give prostate massage a try. Over time after getting comfortable with it I experienced the orgasm to end all orgasms…..this ultimate orgasm was so intense and so much better than anything I had experienced before thatI knew I could never go back.

I experienced sexual pleasure that I never knew was possible thanks to prostate milking.

There is no time like right now to learn how to experience the intensity of a prostate orgasm.

Simply put there is nothing quite like it. Personally I enjoy a good prostate massage even more than sex. It just feels so damn good once you get the hang of it and the orgasms are so much stronger!

What is prostate massage or milking?

Prostate massage and prostate milking mean the same thing and I will use them interchangeably in this post. It’s the process of applying or rubbing the prostate gland. The prostate is reached through the rectum and is about 2 knuckles deep towards the front of your body.

You want to massage it slowly and gently when you find it. It also takes patience to achieve maximum ecstasy.

How to do prostate milking

For starters you will need to get comfortable with the idea of putting something in your butt. If this idea makes you uncomfortable, start slow and think of this as the beginning of an incredible journey. You can thank me later when you are experiencing mind-numbing orgasms more intense than anything you ever imagined.

You will also find that your erections get harder over time. Mine are now rock hard when I am in the right state of mind.

You should always keep these facts in mind.

Start slow and small. Think about using your pinky or index finger the first few times.
Use lots of lube. This is critical. You don’t want to be in the situation of having to pull a dry massager out of your butt. Trust me it hurts!
Invest in a few good prostate massager toys. You don’t want to be one of those guys that shows up in the emergency room with a broken bottle up their ass.
Try not to touch your penis as long as possible! You want to focus your attention on your prostate. But once/if you touch your penis and masturbate it will be 1000 times more intense than normal. Just try to hold off as long as you can.

5 Simple Steps for the Best Prostate Massage

1. Give yourself lots of time.

This is crucial. You cannot rush prostate massage. Some of my best sessions have been when my wife is out of town and I can just take my time with no worries about being interrupted.

You want to be home alone with at least one hour with two hours being ideal. This is different that your standard masturbation session so you will not want any interruptions.

2. Clean up properly

Before you start your session make sure you wash your butt and anus really good. I recommend taking a quick hot shower before your start.When you are in the shower put a fingertip in your anus to start loosening up and get in the mood. This will help relax you and get you in the mind set.

If you don’t have time for shower just make sure you wash your butt with warm water and soap. Also if you need to poop make sure you do that before hand. You don’t want to pull out your toy out to find it covered in a nice film of crap. It also seems to make the prostate massage feel better if you use it shortly after taking a huge dump. I’m not sure why but try it out and you will see what I’m talking about. Ha!

You don’t need to take an enema before you start. That is overkill but I must admit the occasional enema feels so damn good.

You also want to wash your toys thoroughly before you start. I use hot water and soap to make sure my prostate massagers are nice and clean.

2. Relax and clear your mind

I like to take a nice hot shower and get really clean. I recommend really cleaning your butt good . You really want to get in there and clean it out. I like to lather up my butt with soap and then insert my finger several times to make sure I am nice and clean and to also really get into the mood.

Put all of your lube, towels, and toys in the bed before you start so once you get going you won’t need to get up. I then get in the bed completely naked and make sure the temperature of the room is just right. Make sure you are calm. I like to take several deep breathes slow and deep to put me in the right relaxed state of mind.

3. Make yourself comfortable

Experiment to find the position that feels best to you. I like to lay on my right side. Another position I enjoy is on my stomach with pillows under my stomach with my butt in the air. But my favorite position is sitting in a chair leaning back with my hips/pelvis tilted upward.

Other enjoy standing, laying on their back..whatever works. The key here is to be patient and experiment to find out what feels good to you. There is no “right” position.

4. Start massaging the prostate

Get started by applying a liberal amount of lube to your toy and your anus. I can’t stress how important lube is. I recommend all natural coconut oil. Make sure you are relaxed and insert the prostate massager and let it hit your prostate. If this is your first time it might feel uncomfortable so remember to take it nice and slow.

Once it is inserted your sphincter and anal muscles will relax and clench around the toy. Be patient.

To massage my prostate I prefer to contract my PC muscles for a few seconds and then relax. Then repeat. Your PC muscles are the ones you use when peeing so pretend that you are trying to stop your urine flow. This will take a bit of practice.

While you are doing this your anal muscles are slowly drawing the massager in and out. Slowly bumping and massaging against your prostate. The harder the contractions the harder the pressure. Over time this should lead to a prostate orgasm.

If you decide to touch your penis use long strokes that massage the full length of your member. When you are ready to cum pull the massager to it’s widest point or pull it out completely to make your orgasm about 10X more intense!

Why should I do this?

Ask yourself another question. Why shouldn’t you try prostate massage? Prostate massage can change your sex life. Compared to regular masturbation until you orgasm this will add some variety and help you free your mind.

Orgasms from prostate massage are so much more intense than regular masturbation and they come with so many benefits! You really owe it to yourself to give it a try just once. Don’t over complicate it. Buy a prostate massager, lube it up, and stick it in your butt and masturbate until you orgasm! It really is that simple. You can thank me later.

You can’t go wrong with the Aneros Helix. Just get started!

Does prostate massage make me gay?

No. I am a heterosexual happily married man that enjoys anal play. Just remember there is nothing wrong with exploring your body and not letting yourself be held back by societal taboos.

What does prostate massage feel like?

I always start small with one of my smaller toys. 90% of the time I start with the njoy pfun plug. I lube it up with coconut oil and then I gently insert it. The cool touch of the steel as I insert it and it presses against my contracting muscles creates a nice warm tingling sensation.

Once it comes in contact with my prostate any contact with my penis especially down strokes that cause the massager to put more pressure on the prostate feel absolutely amazing. I typically slowly increase the size and length of the toys I am using as the session progresses. Once I work my way up to the Pure Wand I am usually very close to exploding.

I will then rock the Pure Wand slowly from side to side without any penis contact to bring myself to climax. These orgasms can be so intense that I have to focus on not making any noises or grunts. Ha!

Important Stuff

How to Find the Prostate

Here is a pretty interesting video that will help you find the prostate.

Conclusion

Go for it! Explore the wonderful joy and orgasms that only a good prostate massage can give you. The best news is that it is healthy and can be done alone or with a partner.

Enjoy your body.