Butt Stuff – Does Enjoying Anal Play Mean Your Gay?

Let’s get straight to the point! Liking anal play aka “butt stuff” doesn’t mean your gay. Your sexual identity is defined by the gender you’re attracted to and not the parts of your body that you play with. If you’re avoiding prostate massage because you think it’s taboo you are missing out and living in the stone age. Your anus has very sensitive nerve endings which can cause pleasure when stimulated.

I’m a happily married heterosexual male that loves anal play and putting toys in my butt. Climaxing while you have a finger or prostate massager inserted in your ass intensifies the orgasm 10X. In fact I can’t even imagine cumming without having one of my favorite toys inserted and rubbing against my prostate. I have exploded cum countless times when one of my larger toys rubs past my prostate. The feeling of pressure and fullness is amazing!

If you are just getting started then start slow. You can start by slowly inserting a finger while you are masturbating. Once you get comfortable with the feeling of penetration you can graduate to a prostate massager that is at least 3 inches long with a curve which will come in contact with your prostate. One of our favorite toys is the Aneros Helix. It is perfect for beginners.

Just remember it is important to lube up properly since the rectum doesn’t self lubricate. Coconut oil is my personal favorite. You will also want to take it slow and warm up properly. If you feel uncomfortable, stop. And you should take your time as you work your way up to larger toys.

So experiment, let go of your inhibitions and find out what feels good to you!